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MEET DR. DONNA ORIOWO

Therapist. Speaker. Author. Educator

Dr. Donna is a transformative, entertaining, but thought provoking speaker who breaks down large concepts like race, sex, gender, and mental health, into bite sized chunks that are digestible and applicable to your organization! She will make you laugh, and she might also make you cry. But don’t worry, this clinically licensed social worker won’t leave you hanging.

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For Black Womxn

For Black Womxn

Here are exclusive ways we can work together.

  • This FREE community is for you if you identify as a Black woman who is ready to be in space with other Black women. Here, you are encouraged to be authentic, say what you need to say to feel present, and be in your Black feelings!

    Click here to join

  • Dr. Donna is a clinically licensed social worker, so of course you can fain some 1:1 time with her.

    Therapy for couples and individuals is available. be sure to check the therapy page for more details.

    Interested in coaching? Great! you don’t lose any clinical experience, but you get a little more than a nod in the right direction, too! A win/win.
    Corporate coaching is available for those business who want to buy a package of hours :)

    Click Here for therapy Info

    Need a coaching package? Email us!

  • Looking for an engaging speaker? How about one that is knowledgeable about mental health, sexuality, DEI, relationships, self-esteem?

    Dr. Donna’s got you covered!
    The very not shy Doc’ is ready to do her thing at your summit, mental health lunch & learn, or to grace the stage as your presenter or keynote!

    Learn more HERE

  • Come outside-outside with me!

    The PTO (Plan to Orgasm Retreat) comes around every now and then, the next one is this October 2026.

    Learn more HERE

    Are you a sexuality professional? Then the Out Of Office Retreat might be for you!

    This one won’t return again until 2027. Follow on Instagram to keep an eye out!

BOOKINGS & APPEARANCES

Book Dr. Donna Oriowo to speak at your next event.

So, you wanna talk about race…

or sex…

or mental health...

or ALL OF THE ABOVE — without it being weird or boring?

Then you must be looking for a speaker who is thought-provoking, funny, deeply real, and just disruptive enough that you feel the shift.

Someone who will get folk all in their feeling and gives them tools to do something different afterward?

If you inner voice just went “hell yeah”

then go ahead an book Dr. Donna

Book Dr. Donna Oriowo
  • "Amazing! I learned so much from her webinar in general. "

    Admittedly, this is a conversation I dread having. This webinar addressed my own narrative around my children being sexual beings and how that was impacting my ability to effectively have this conversation and support them in informed decision-making. Dr. Donna guides you through tackling your fears and own narrative around sex and sexuality. The talk is for anyone who is connected to youth. Fear doesn’t prepare our youth to navigate their own sexual identity and if we don’t, someone else will. Have the talk. Let Dr. Donna help you!

    -Dr. Ajita Robinson

    Sex Talk Parent Edition Training Participant

  • "Dr. Donna’s light, fun, visuals were on point in a room full of black women!"

    Goal Digging Webinar participant

  • I loved the presentation,

    I think the dating advice or at least learning how to talk to your family and friends about the topic was helpful as well.

  • I appreciated the reminder and the amount of information and examples about the standards of beauty being around light skin, blonde hair, and blue eyes. I teach classes to girls and adults (mostly their moms) together, and want to make sure I incorporate some of this info into that class so we can keep expanding the definition of “normal” and “beauty”.

    Amy J.

    Snatched Edges Why Black Hair Matters in Sex Ed Training Participant

  • "I have learned so much."

    This was the most productive, relevant and timely training I have attended. It challenged me and pushed me to do some REAL personal work. Thank you !!!

    Brittany

    The Darker The Berry Training Participant

  • "This was a powerful training"

    I feel like I can have those conversations as a black woman and not feel so judged. I learned about racial identity and how to integrate race and culture into sex ed work. I also learned more about intersectionality and how/where I fit in!

    Sasha

    The Darker The Berry Training Participant

  • I thought Dr. Oriowo’s use of a variety of engaging interactive learning strategies was well-thought-out.

    As a trainer myself, I sometimes wonder “is now the right time for small groups? Paired discussion? Large group movement?” and Dr. Oriowo absolutely nailed each selection. Beyond appreciating the topic presented in its own right, I admired the thought that went into presenting a session for such a large group...Watching her facilitation skills leaves me thinking that if she is on the agenda, I'm attending, whatever the topic.

    -William "Bill" Taverner

    Executive Director for the Center of Sex Ed

  • "Illuminative and transforming"

    I had an opportunity to hear Dr. Donna speak the National Sex Ed Conference in 2017 and her presentation was illuminative and transforming. Her discussion about negotiating race and some of the challenges that exist for people of color was sobering and refreshing. I’m looking forward to future collaborations with her.”

    -Dr. James Wadly

    Editor in Chief of the Journal Of Black Sexuality and Relationships

Upcoming Events

  • PTO Retreat

    October 2026

    Ready to get away for a lil P.T.O?

    And no, I don’t just mean Paid Time Off. I mean creating your Plan To Orgasm. As in, your life, not just your bedroom. This 3 part retreat is for you if you are tired of just going along to get along and don’t want to keep living a life you need to escape from. Click below to learn more and submit your application

  • In My Black Feelings

    Tuesdays at noon (12 pm edt)

    This community is for you if you identify as a Black woman who is ready to be in space with other Black women. Here, you are encouraged to be authentic, say what you need to say to feel present, and be in your black feelings!

  • Drink Water & Mind Your Business Read Along!

    Starting March 3rd

    This is 5 week small group exclusive group to read together and discuss the book Drink Water & Mind Your Business, by yours truly, Dr. Donna Oriowo. Dr. Donna will lead this 5 week therapeutic group in the month of March. Learn more by clicking below!