Plan To Orgasm (P.T.O.)

Because pleasure is your birthright, but it doesn’t mean you know how to have it!

INFO SESSION: OCT 10 AT 5 PM ET

Oct 14, 2025 - Oct 18, 2025

Puerto Vallarta, Mexico

Reserve Your Spot

At the Plan To Orgasm Retreat, we believe that pleasure is your birthright.

Just like Marie Kondo revolutionized tidying up, we're here to revolutionize your sex life and beyond. Our curated community space is designed exclusively for Black women who are ready to embrace pleasure as the foundation for a fulfilled and empowered existence.

Throughout the retreat, you'll embark on a journey of self-discovery, education, and empowerment. Dr. Donna Oriowo, the expert facilitators will guide you through a series of transformative workshops, discussions, and activities. From exploring sensual practices to enhancing intimate connections, you'll gain the knowledge and tools to fully embody pleasure in every aspect of your life.

If you are interested in learning the power of pleasure and how it can impact all areas of your life, then this retreat is for you!

The P.T.O. Retreat happens in 3 Parts!:

Foreplay

The point of PTO is to build a pleasure community! This means you get to meet the participants and begin building your pleasure life BEFORE we touch down in Puerto Vallarta in a kick off call where we level set and create personal goals!

Climax!

This is the part where we do some work AT the retreat IN our beautiful villa WITH our newly formed pleasure community! We are gonna learn some thangs, eat some thangs, and do some thangs!

Aftercare

Having pleasure in P.V. is the easy part. Integrating learned lessons into your daily life AFTER you get back is the hard part. But that’s what the community is for. You will have 90 days of support to integrate your pleasure goals into your daily life!

But WHAT WE DOIN’?

Tuesday

Arrival!
Meet the driver outside who will take you to our villa! Have a welcome drink, some snacks and take some time to relax before our welcome dinner.
Wednesday

Program Begins!
We will start with getting to know each other and unpacking some of the B.S. Before we move into some play time!
Thursday

Rebuilding!
As we continue with the learning, what we unpack needs new things to take its place or more B.S. will move in! Plus we have a special event!
Friday

It’s time to play!
This is a day where we, yes, continue the learning, but are also putting some of our newly found pleasure practices into…well…PRACTICE!
Saturday

See ya later!
Now is the time for our goodbye breakfast! While we will be saying goodbye to Mexico, we won't be saying it to each other— 90 days of Aftercare! Psh! HERE. WE. COME!

Allow me to paint you a picture

🏖️ Arrive at P.V. on Tuesday in the early afternoon. You will get in the transportation we provide for you which will bring you to the Villa

🏖️ Upon arrival you will be given a welcome drink and the staff will take you bags to your ocean view room while you are invited to explore the property a bit more (after your COVID test— because we wanna have pleasure not contract the viddy vid)

🏖️ Take time to relax, go down to the private beach, and speak to some of the other attendees. Now is the time to get acclimated with the space or your PTO Made “For Your Pleasure” goody bag— with hand selected gifts curated especially for you!

🏖️ At 7pm edt, be ready for our welcome dinner where we will all introduce ourselves, what we hope to get from the retreat! After that, chill out and do you. It’s your world!

🏖️ WEDNESDAY we get to work: This is where the proprietary program begins to help us unpack some shit and redefine some stuff.

We will also have some play time

🏖️ THURSDAY: We rebuild ourselves and put some things into practice. We will also do a special secret activity on this day!

🏖️ FRIDAY: We will have work to do, but we are gonna def practice what it means to prioritize pleasure!

🏖️ SATURDAY: Goodbye breakfast, but not good bye to us! We will continue with our connection–more details to come. But the idea is that the retreat is a starting place not the ending place for your pleasure practice. And we all need a lil support to keep shit moving

Plan To Orgasm

$6500*

The retreat cost is

covering everything except your flight. We've taken care of all other essential details, ensuring a stress-free and immersive experience. Secure your spot now and embark on a transformative journey towards pleasure-centered living.

*reserve before March 2025 to access up to $1000 off!

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What's included?

⭕ Intimate pleasure community of dope Black women who have been vetted for appropriateness for the PTO retreat; so call it a safer space

⭕ Pool for relaxation and fun

⭕ Beach front property to maximize the fun in the sun atmosphere

⭕ Full use of the luxury villa and all the goodies they have for us on property

⭕ Drinks and snacks– gotta eat a snack to be a snack

⭕ 2 gourmet meals a day from our private chef

⭕ Villa staff to see to your needs, like bringing your drink poolside, and keeping your room fresh and ready for you!

⭕ And me, Dr. Donna Oriowo award winning sex educator and therapist to help guide you through the mindset shift that leads to more pleasure in the bedroom and in life!

⭕ The PTO proprietary curriculum to move you from being faking it and secretly struggling and feeling out of alignment to moving into a pleasure filled alignment where you don’t compromise success or sex

⭕ Luxury private accommodations–ocean view suite– with bathroom, and appropriate amenities (which you get to pick)

⭕ Airport transfers, cuz no one wants to worry about getting to and from the house

What do the previous participants have to say about P.T.O?

I don’t know if you know this, but getting folk to talk about pleasure…on camera is HARD! But we still managed to get this clip the outlines how many of the 2023 inaugural P.T.O. Participants feel.

Check it out!

P.T.O Retreat Testimonials

“Everything was professional and pretty well organized especially at the location.It was great just having to pay my money and everything else was already pre-planned way better experience than a resort or hotel. the presentations were very professional insightful and fun. With equal amounts of time for self-care relaxation I really appreciate it can't wait for the next one"

Tiffany
“This has been such a transformational experience. PTO has provided me with the tools I’ve needed to rediscover, redefine, and assertively own my relationship to my sexuality and my body. As Black queer femme and a survivor of intimate partner violence, I thought that this would take years, if not decades, to accomplish. I am eternally grateful and forever changed by the ways that Dr. Oriowo has helped me imagine and create a life with ownership of my true self and with pleasure at the center and in the foundation of the life that I now have the courage and audacity to create for myself."

Private
“II am very appreciative of the informative, action-oriented PTO training. It liberated me to open the door again to sexual self-discovery and be mindful of my feminine sensuality. I look forward to silencing the critical inner voice and freeing the "I want pleasure" voice."

Teri (on the PTO Workshop)
“II'm really appreciative of this workshop. I've had some anxiety about sex/sexuality for most of my life, but especially over the past few months so I was feeling VERY afraid before the workshop, just thinking about sex. The workshop really helped me center and feel optimistic about my relationship to sex going forward. "

Dei (From PTO workshop