Chloe Bailey recently dropped her newest single “Treat Me” along with a music video. Well, the chaste police have spoken and have found great problem with the music video and, for some, the song and style of singing as well. TikTok is full of comments including:

“You are too good to turn out like this”

“It feels awkward”

“Meanwhile Halle hasn’t lost her senses yet, she still carries herself well”

“Too much, too soon Just want to see a beautiful young lady with talent but classy”

“Not sure all this was necessary”

“Pretty tasteless”

“You’re gorgeous without doing all that”

“The industry ruined her”

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Sometimes people don’t even recognize their own misogynoir.

2021 has exited, 2022 has come in and as it’s still early, there are already these discussions, resolutions if you will, of finishing the things we start this year. Attached to letting go the shame of not finishing things in the past. But who defines what finished looks like for you? 

It’s already here … the holiday season. “The most wonderful time of the year,” or is it just really the time of year when people, ie. your relatives, seem to just do “the most?” After spending last year’s holidays sheltering in place or with smaller gatherings, many of us may find ourselves invited to or planning to attend larger-sized family gatherings. Although they can be a great time, they can also be a source of strong anxiety and even trauma for some.